PROSPERITY BEGINS WITH SELF-TRUST
Stuck? here's how to trust yourself again
Why do you constantly second-guess yourself (and how can you change that)?
Self-trust transforms everything. It is the little voice within you that enables you to decide, act, and remain firm when the going becomes tough.
But what if you lose it?
Perhaps you've second-guessed yourself one too many times. Perhaps you've taken advice that didn't feel right and regretted it. Or perhaps life has simply knocked you about enough that trusting yourself is… difficult.
I understand. And I assure you - you can regain that trust.
Why Self-Trust matters
Consider your largest, most daring dreams. The ones that make you glow. The ones that perhaps frighten you slightly.
Now ask yourself: Do I have faith in myself to pursue them?
When you trust yourself, decisions become easier. You stop analyzing every little thing. You take the leap even when you don't know how it'll work out, 'cause deep down you know your gut will guide you in the right direction.
Without self-trust, however? You pause. You look for constant validation. You get caught up in cycles of "what if I'm wrong?" - and nothing gets done.
The good news? Self-trust is a skill, not a fixed attribute. And like any skill, you can develop and reinforce it.
How to Rebuild Self-Trust
1. Begin small
Self-trust isn’t about jumping in headfirst all at once. It’s more about proving to yourself, time and again, that you’re there for yourself.
Do this: Make one tiny decision every day without overthinking. It might be what you eat, what you wear, or which task you do first. Decide, own it, and move forward.
2. Listen to your instincts
That inner nudge? It's trying to help you. But if you've ignored it for a while, it might seem distant.
Reconnect by being aware of what your body is telling you. Pay attention when things feel light and fun (yes!) and heavy and draining (no!). Enjoy those energy vibrations, however small.
3. Maintain a 'proof list'
You've made good choices in the past. You've relied on yourself and it's paid off. List those times down.
Each time you follow your intuition and it guides you correctly, add it to your list. As time goes by, you will have concrete evidence that you can rely on yourself.
4. Play with signs & synchronicities
Have you ever had a song, number, or arbitrary message appear at the right moment? The universe adores validating your intuition.
Make an intention: "Show me a sign that I'm on the right path." Then remain open. The more you recognize these nudges, the more you'll trust your inner knowing.
5. Give yourself permission
To listen. To feel. To attempt. To fail. follow what feels right in your body.
Self-trust doesn't mean you're always right - it means you trust you can deal with whatever is next. Offer yourself the same understanding and support you'd offer your best friend.
You've got this
Rebuilding trust in yourself doesn't happen overnight, but every movement you make counts. Start now. Choose something simple, heed your inner self, and trust that you are exactly where you need to be.
I created a set of Self-Trust Cards to help you reconnect with your inner wisdom. They’re totally free to download, and you can get them here. Plus, when you sign up, I’ll send you a 7-day email course on how to strengthen your intuition. Feel free to check them out and let me know how they work for you!